We talk so much about how to manifest what we want, but I think that sometimes we're missing an important component. I believe that the thing we're trying to manifest, is not so much a thing, but a feeling. I know for myself, when I talk about manifesting physical abundance, in the financial, ... Read More about Manifest
Take the Morning Off
If you know me, you know I suffer from occasional bouts of anxiety. Most of the time, they're situational and caused by something outside of myself, that triggers it. Sometimes there's no apparent reason and I don't know if this is true, or only my perception of it, but they're the ... Read More about Take the Morning Off
How Can I Stop Sabotaging Myself?
We're all been there. You want something, want it really bad, you come super close and then bam, it's gone. Why does that happen? What can you do about it? Let's really look at and answer the question, "Why do I keep sabotaging myself?" You're not really clear about your goal. Being super ... Read More about How Can I Stop Sabotaging Myself?
Start Effective Planning Instantly
You know that strategic, effective planning will help you to reach your goals, but you don't know where to start. Does this describe where you are, right now? Let me help you. From the Incandescent Intention Setting eCourse: I used to call this “goal planning”. But as I was writing this, I looked ... Read More about Start Effective Planning Instantly
Betrayal as a Blessing
*Warning: Intense Language Ahead* Whoa. The energy flying around lately has been nothing but intense. Revelations, betrayals, truths, lies, flat out fucking crazy. But within each circumstance, there is a seed, a kernel of the truth that needs to be revealed in order to heal, to grow, to ... Read More about Betrayal as a Blessing
In the Blink of an Eye
On a rainy, foggy night in January, the four of us were going to a concert. We were all very excited and as the concert was a two hour drive, we set out early. The mp3 player was loaded with music to get us into the mood and we were in great spirits as we set out on our drive. The ... Read More about In the Blink of an Eye
Going ‘No Contact’
What Is 'No Contact'? 'No contact' is a popular term, used to describe your choice to disconnect, totally and completely, from one or more persons. It usually refers to familial and romantic relationships, but it can also be platonic, friend relationships as well. It's a tough thing to do. ... Read More about Going ‘No Contact’
Duty and Loyalty to Those Who Don’t Deserve It
Duty and Loyalty. Two very important character traits. But at what point must we ask ourselves if our fealty to someone or something is no longer deserved, or maybe misdirected in the first place? I speak to so many people who make excuses for people who treat them horribly. I recognize it, ... Read More about Duty and Loyalty to Those Who Don’t Deserve It
Finding Your Tribe
I hear so many people talk about how hard it is to make friends after a certain age. Whether it's 30, 40, 50, or more, I'm calling bullshit. There are absolute, concrete ways to make really good friends, it doesn't matter if you want one great friend, a small circle or an entire tribe. You can do ... Read More about Finding Your Tribe
Constructive Criticism?
Or Destructive Criticism? We all need a sound board. Someone who will be honest with us about how we might improve. Sometimes, however - the people that we choose for that role aren't exactly well suited for it. So, how do you decide who to trust with your most vulnerable self? It's really easy to ... Read More about Constructive Criticism?